Wednesday, November 25, 2009

A Night Out



Boy do I ever feel like a horse's pa-toot.

For the past 10 weeks, I have been dreading my business English class. I did not enjoy teaching this class, and did not really take to any of the students - who are all seniors. All seniors in our university finish their courses early, so they can find a place to intern for their final semester. So, I gave final exams this week. I was so excited to not have to see these students anymore.

In order to help motivate the students to participate in class, I had an on-going competition for them. All the students were in teams. At the end of the semester, whichever team had the most points, got a free night out to Papa Johns. So last night, Michael and I met 10 of my students to take them out to Papa Johns (this is a lot nicer than it would be in the States, I promise). As I have said, I didn't really connect with any of these students, so I wasn't exactly excited about our night out.

I had the best time.

Turns out, these students are wonderful! We laughed and all had a really good time. During the course of the meal, they found out that I have been trying to find some shoes to wear in the winter, but haven't been able to find where to get them. So after dinner, they all (even the boys) took us shopping. They helped me find the perfect pair of boots. And not only that, they worked some magic as well. The man wanted to sell me the boots for 600 yuan (somewhere between $85 to $100). Those students (all 10 of them) argued and bargained with the man until he finally said he would sell them to me for 70 yuan (about $10). As an American, I would have never been able to get such a good price without their help!

At the end of the night, they hugged me and told me they would miss me. And I felt the same about them. We exchanged some information so that hopefully we can keep in touch. And at the end of the night I realized for the first time that I am happy to be in China.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Some Common Myths Debunked




Myth #1: All people in China wear pointy bamboo hats.
Fact: Very few people in China wear pointy bamboo hats - only farmers and manual laborers that spend a lot of time out in the sun.

Myth #2: China is a very rural country covered completely in rice fields.
Fact: Although China does have a great number of rice fields, it is also a very urban country. It's large cities are much like those in America - huge numbers of people, taxis and other forms of public transportation, lots of colleges and universities, and skyscrapers.

Myth #3: Everyone in China eats cat.
Fact: Although I cannot completely debunk this myth, I can say that as a vegetarian who lives in China, I have never eaten cat (to my knowledge), so that's at least one person.

Myth #4: Chinese people love MSG.
Fact: Okay, the fact is, Chinese people really do love MSG... they put it in almost everything.

Myth #5: You get free fortune cookies at the end of your meal at Chinese restaurants.
Fact: This might surprise you, but this only happens in America. I have been in China for 3 months now and have never been offered a fortune cookie at the end of a meal. Come to think of it, I've never even seen a fortune cookie in China.


This concludes this session of Common Myths Debunked... I will update you if I find any more truths here in this wonderful country we call China.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Student Spotlight


Well, this has not started out to be the greatest week in China. It has been raining for about 6 days straight - and it's very cold. Not a good combination. It's one of those times when you don't want to get out in the cold and rain, but you're tired of being cooped up in the house! I also just found out this morning that my Grandad (my last living grandparent) had a heart attack yesterday. He is okay, luckily he called my mom 2 days ago complaining about pains and she told him to go to the hospital - so he was actually in the hospital when he had the attack. I'm also a little bummed to be missing out on the holidays back home. But in an effort at some light-heartedness, I am going to introduce you to one of my students. He is a Freshman English major. His English name is W - yes, the letter W.



(W is the one in the middle - black shirt, big hair)



Contrary to how he may appear, W is actually very shy and a very good student. But you have not yet seen his distinguishing characteristic: his fingernails -



W's fingernails.



I have heard somewhere before that having long fingernails is a status symbol - you can only have long fingernails if you are wealthy enough to not have to do manual labor. If this is true, W is the richest person I know.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

You Are Not Alone

I have been giving mid-term exams over the past couple of weeks. This has been nice for me; a little break while the students do most of the work. Well, some of them. They are supposed to give 5-minute speeches. I had some that did really well - prepared in advance, showed up on time, wrote the speech themselves instead of getting it off the internet, etc. I had some that did okay. I had some that just brown-nosed the whole time hoping to get a good grade - example: one student's topic was 'My Favorite Musician.' She said it was me... the first day of class I told them they could ask me anything; they asked me to sing. I sang one verse of 'You are My Sunshine' and evidently made such an impression with this young lady as to become her favorite musician - and some that probably had a really great speech, but I couldn't tell because I couldn't understand a word of their English. But my two "favorites" were the two young men who sang to me. One of them has only been to class once. I was slightly impressed that he showed up for the exam at all. His topic was 'Exercise.' The following is his speech:

There are two things people should do to better themselves: learn and exercise.

That was it. The remainder of the time, he decided to sing me a song in English, hoping this would improve his grade. It didn't.

But my favorite by far was from Juan (this is his "English" name, although he pronounces it Jew-Ann). He actually prepared a speech, but felt he needed to add something to improve it. He said, "Mrs. Bowen, it must be difficult to sit here all day by yourself and listen to our speeches, so I will sing you a song, and maybe it will improve my grade." Then he proceeded to sing "You Are Not Alone" by Michael Jackson. I was going to give him bonus points until I heard this part of the song: "I am here wiss you." Sorry Jew-Ann, no A for you.

Monday, November 2, 2009

I'm a Local

A lot of my 'big moments' in China tend to happen in the supermarket. Yesterday was no different. Michael and I find ourselves going to Wu Mart at least twice a week. (We both like milk, and they only come in 950 ml containers here...). We are used to people stopping to look into our grocery cart to see our selections. For some reason they are really intrigued by our food choices, although I feel they are not that strange - milk, oatmeal, yogurt, vegetables and rice. So I thought nothing of it when an older lady stopped to peak into our cart. But then she started pointing at my oatmeal and speaking in Chinese (which brings me to another point I must tell you about in a minute). Apparently, she was asking me - ME- where she could find something in the supermarket. I have taken this as an indicator of one of two things - either I've been in China too long (as now I'm giving directions to the native Chinese), or I've just been here long enough to be accepted as a local. Either way, it was nice to feel like the one who knew her way around for once.

Now my other observation. It has now gotten to the point that I can carry on a conversation with the people here, and I don't just mean English speakers. I don't even mean that I am speaking in Chinese. My Mandarin is very poor. I only know enough to order food and tell a taxi where to drop me off. I am speaking of instances where a Chinese person is speaking in Chinese while I am speaking in English, and somehow we are able to understand each other. For instance, Michael and I regularly go to the same selection of restaurants. The last time we went to one of our favorites, I went in and got our table while Michael went next door to get a drink. The waitress recognized me and began speaking in Chinese. I responded, "Oh, he's coming. He went next door to get a drink." And then she saw Michael coming in and nodded - maybe not knowing exactly what I said, but getting the general idea. Again, this could be representing one of the two options mentioned above.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

A Recap


In case you couldn't access the blog I had on our website, here's what you missed:



Blisters, Blueberry Lays, etc.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009




We have now been in China for 19 days. We have had too many adventures during these 2 1/2 weeks to record them all here. I will try to hit the high points.


After spending a night in Shanghai, we arrived at our apartment in Hangzhou Friday night. When I woke up Saturday morning, it took me a few minutes to realize where I was. And when I did realize where I was, I kept thinking, “This is crazy. What am I doing here?” Although there are days when I still think that, I have started to feel at home here. That first Saturday, we walked down to the supermarket. At the time, it seemed like it was about 5 miles - about as much as I would walk in maybe 2 weeks in the U.S. I had major blisters and was not really all that excited to be in China. Now that we have been here for a few weeks, that walk to the supermarket seems like nothing. Maybe we are getting in better shape. Maybe it just seems that way because we have to walk everywhere, and we’ve covered longer distances than that. Or maybe we’re just getting used to it. Our apartment is on the 6th floor. There is no elevator. That’s 106 steps - we counted. I used to get winded on the 2nd floor. Now I can make it all the way to the 4th floor before getting winded. In short, we are adjusting to life in China.


Many of our adventures tend to take place in the supermarket. That is where I had my first glimpse at culture shock. We live in a city with about 7 million other people, so the supermarket gets pretty crowded. But somehow, among all the pushing and shoving, I still noticed the live turtles, struggling in plastic bags, trying to escape their doom of becoming dinner. We have thought about starting a ‘Save the Turtles’ operation here, but I fear that even if we set them free, someone would be all to happy to find free dinner passing them by on the streets. We also came across a display of Lays potato chips. I thought, “Oh good, a little taste of home.” But the Lays here are a little different than those back in the good ol’ U.S.of A. Our choices were cucumber, kiwi, or blueberry. We were feeling adventurous, so we decided to give the blueberry flavored Lays a try. When we got back to the apartment and worked up the nerve, we counted to 3 and went for it at the same time. After about 1.2 seconds, we were both reaching for a drink to get the taste out of our mouths. Lesson #1 from China: Blueberries and potato chips don’t mix.




Oh The Adventures of Teaching...

Thursday, October 1, 2009

I have now completed my first full week of classes. And, thankfully, have a week of holiday to recover! I teach 6 classes. On Tuesdays, I teach 2 Business English classes for senior economics majors (one of these is pictured above). On Thursdays and Fridays, I ride a shuttle bus to our other campus (1 hour ride from the campus where we live). I have 2 classes on each of those days - all Oral English for freshman English majors.


My seniors are not the best English students, but we’re getting used to each other. They were my first class, and we have actually met 3 times. Sophomores, Juniors, and Seniors all begin classes one week before the Freshman. Our first class meeting was quite an adventure. Because they are economics majors, they haven’t had as much practice with their English, so I...have...to...talk...very...slowly. During the first class, I introduced myself and told about my family and my hometown (Memphis). Next, we went over the class rules. I told them that if they obeyed the rules, we would be friends and have a good time in class. If they do not obey the rules, they will make me very sad, and I would have to make them very sad. They were terrified of me. I don’t think anyone has ever been terrified of me in my entire life! I’ve got to admit, that was a little thrilling! For the rest of class, I gave them an opportunity to introduce themselves to me. They had to tell me 5 things: 1)Their Chinese name, 2)Their English name, 3)Their hometown, 4)What their hometown is famous for (every town is famous for something around here), and 5)If they could visit anywhere in the world, where would the go and why. While they were working on their answers, I went around the room to help those who didn’t already have one, come up with an English name. I made a list of names they could choose from- you know, good English names like Monica, Rachel, Phoebe and Kate, Juliet, Claire, Sawyer, Charlie, and Jack. Their introductions went over without much hitch. They had no problem telling me what their hometowns were “famurs” for, and if they could visit anywhere in the world, most chose Paris because it is so “romantica.”


But if I’m allowed to have favorites, I would have to say it’s my freshmen classes. They are English majors, so their English is much better. And, who wouldn’t like a class that gasps as soon as you walk into the room and mumbles to one another “how beautiful!” It has a certain affect on the self-esteem. They also tend to be more respectful. I also like these classes because they are only 2 40-minute periods, rather than the 3 40-minute periods for my senior classes. We had the same class format for my Oral English classes. I introduced myself and the class, and then gave them a chance to introduce themselves. It went really well. And after classes were over, half the class would line up to have their picture taken with me!


Now I’m grateful to have a week off. Today is China’s National Day. This year they celebrate 60 years since the founding of the People’s Republic. October 4th is the Mid-Autumn Mood Festival. So to celebrate both holidays, the government has given us October 1-8 as a national holiday. We plan to visit Shanghai for a few days. And then we will travel by bus to Nanjing, to visit some museums and tour the city. I’ll let you know how it goes!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Hello From China

I'm back!! We were having some problems with our website, so Michael and I got a new program for our computer that makes it possible for access parts of the internet that have been blocked here in China - including blogspot. So from now on, I will be using my old trusty blog site here for relaying my experiences of life in China.

For today, I don't want to share any stories. As some of you may know, I have been feeling very homesick over the past few weeks. The experts call this 'culture shock.' I just call it 'missing Annie.' But I do miss more than Annie! Life in China isn't really difficult - we have everything that we need. It's just different. And I definitely couldn't do this alone. Michael is a great source of support and encouragement, but he's not who I'm talking about. My Father is the one who gets me through everyday here - good and bad. Never have I felt his presence more. So today, I just want to share one of my favorite verses, which also happens to go along with one of my favorite songs. When I am feeling lonely or homesick or just plain sad, this verse always lifts my heart.

(The song below was recorded by the ZOE group from Nashville, TN)

Zephaniah 3:17
The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.