Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Oh Christmas.

Well, Christmas has come and gone. It was quite an experience here in China. Michael and I were invited to Christmas parties that our students were throwing. We thought it was all one big party but turns out we were invited to 8 parties, all at 6PM Thursday and we had already promised to attend them all. Thankfully, they were all on the same floor of the same building - so we got to make an appearance at all of them. Many of my sweet students gave me gifts. I must say that my favorite was a set (his&hers) of cell phone holders. They are plush heads (one male one female) with a slit in the top of the head for your cell phone. Genius. We use them every night.

Also, our school administration invited us to a "party." When we arrived we found that it was a large student production in an auditorium. I was a little peeved at having to sit and wait for 2 hours for the thing to start but found it to be well worth it. I can only compare it to a bad high school talent show. I have included a video of my favorite act below.


Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and a very happy New Year!!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

A Changed Perspective

Several things have happened over the past couple of days that have changed my perspective on life. I thought about blogging about them. Telling you how I feel my life has changed by what I have seen and heard. But that's not really what I want to do. I don't want you to see how my life has changed; I want YOUR life to change. So instead of reading my blog today, I want you to read something else. At first glance, you may think it is a little long. But keep reading. I promise you won't regret it. Let the Father speak to you today. Are you listening to Him? Are you fulfilling His purpose for you?


PS - this will also explain the new button (Amazima) that I have added to the page.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Finally Settling In


After being in China for over 3 months, I finally feel like I'm starting to settle in. I have been getting to know my students better and really enjoy being with them. And now that I'm not as homesick as before, I have been able to start having some fun. Here's a glimpse of the last couple of weeks:

I thought I would be excited when No-Shave November ended, but little did I know...



These Boys are crazy.

I was getting down about not being home for Christmas, so Michael and I went on a hunt for Christmas decorations. They are few and far between here in Hangzhou, but we did manage to find a few things. Just imagine buying all of your decorations from the Dollar store and you'll get a pretty good picture of our selection. However, we had a good time and have added a little Christmas cheer to our apartment.



It's about a foot tall and took all of about 5 minutes to decorate. Hey, I'm just excited we have a tree! It'll be our very own Charlie Brown Christmas.


Last weekend we went on a short overnight trip to Shanghai. We're only about an hour and a half away. We thought it was neat to be able to say that we were going to Shanghai for the weekend! We've got some friends that live there. So, we visited with them some. We also got to go to a real mall and got to eat at a hamburger & milkshake joint. On Sunday, we met with some Chinese family there and had a wonderful time! It was a great weekend!



The Pearl Tower



The one in the middle is the building Tom Cruise jumps on in Mission Impossible 3.




Our dinner in Shanghai. Curly fries and sweet tea!!!


One of the attendees at our Sunday morning meeting. I hope to have a baby girl that looks just like this one day!!

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

A Chinese Thanksgiving

Here's a little glimpse of the "Family" Thanksgiving we had here in China:
The boys' kitchen



The women's kitchen :)


the turkey


The rest of the spread



Loading our plates!



We were so blessed to have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Even though we are far away from our blood family we were still able to enjoy this tradition - even without an oven! This was also a great reminder that the Big Man Upstairs is taking care of us constantly!


Wednesday, November 25, 2009

A Night Out



Boy do I ever feel like a horse's pa-toot.

For the past 10 weeks, I have been dreading my business English class. I did not enjoy teaching this class, and did not really take to any of the students - who are all seniors. All seniors in our university finish their courses early, so they can find a place to intern for their final semester. So, I gave final exams this week. I was so excited to not have to see these students anymore.

In order to help motivate the students to participate in class, I had an on-going competition for them. All the students were in teams. At the end of the semester, whichever team had the most points, got a free night out to Papa Johns. So last night, Michael and I met 10 of my students to take them out to Papa Johns (this is a lot nicer than it would be in the States, I promise). As I have said, I didn't really connect with any of these students, so I wasn't exactly excited about our night out.

I had the best time.

Turns out, these students are wonderful! We laughed and all had a really good time. During the course of the meal, they found out that I have been trying to find some shoes to wear in the winter, but haven't been able to find where to get them. So after dinner, they all (even the boys) took us shopping. They helped me find the perfect pair of boots. And not only that, they worked some magic as well. The man wanted to sell me the boots for 600 yuan (somewhere between $85 to $100). Those students (all 10 of them) argued and bargained with the man until he finally said he would sell them to me for 70 yuan (about $10). As an American, I would have never been able to get such a good price without their help!

At the end of the night, they hugged me and told me they would miss me. And I felt the same about them. We exchanged some information so that hopefully we can keep in touch. And at the end of the night I realized for the first time that I am happy to be in China.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Some Common Myths Debunked




Myth #1: All people in China wear pointy bamboo hats.
Fact: Very few people in China wear pointy bamboo hats - only farmers and manual laborers that spend a lot of time out in the sun.

Myth #2: China is a very rural country covered completely in rice fields.
Fact: Although China does have a great number of rice fields, it is also a very urban country. It's large cities are much like those in America - huge numbers of people, taxis and other forms of public transportation, lots of colleges and universities, and skyscrapers.

Myth #3: Everyone in China eats cat.
Fact: Although I cannot completely debunk this myth, I can say that as a vegetarian who lives in China, I have never eaten cat (to my knowledge), so that's at least one person.

Myth #4: Chinese people love MSG.
Fact: Okay, the fact is, Chinese people really do love MSG... they put it in almost everything.

Myth #5: You get free fortune cookies at the end of your meal at Chinese restaurants.
Fact: This might surprise you, but this only happens in America. I have been in China for 3 months now and have never been offered a fortune cookie at the end of a meal. Come to think of it, I've never even seen a fortune cookie in China.


This concludes this session of Common Myths Debunked... I will update you if I find any more truths here in this wonderful country we call China.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Student Spotlight


Well, this has not started out to be the greatest week in China. It has been raining for about 6 days straight - and it's very cold. Not a good combination. It's one of those times when you don't want to get out in the cold and rain, but you're tired of being cooped up in the house! I also just found out this morning that my Grandad (my last living grandparent) had a heart attack yesterday. He is okay, luckily he called my mom 2 days ago complaining about pains and she told him to go to the hospital - so he was actually in the hospital when he had the attack. I'm also a little bummed to be missing out on the holidays back home. But in an effort at some light-heartedness, I am going to introduce you to one of my students. He is a Freshman English major. His English name is W - yes, the letter W.



(W is the one in the middle - black shirt, big hair)



Contrary to how he may appear, W is actually very shy and a very good student. But you have not yet seen his distinguishing characteristic: his fingernails -



W's fingernails.



I have heard somewhere before that having long fingernails is a status symbol - you can only have long fingernails if you are wealthy enough to not have to do manual labor. If this is true, W is the richest person I know.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

You Are Not Alone

I have been giving mid-term exams over the past couple of weeks. This has been nice for me; a little break while the students do most of the work. Well, some of them. They are supposed to give 5-minute speeches. I had some that did really well - prepared in advance, showed up on time, wrote the speech themselves instead of getting it off the internet, etc. I had some that did okay. I had some that just brown-nosed the whole time hoping to get a good grade - example: one student's topic was 'My Favorite Musician.' She said it was me... the first day of class I told them they could ask me anything; they asked me to sing. I sang one verse of 'You are My Sunshine' and evidently made such an impression with this young lady as to become her favorite musician - and some that probably had a really great speech, but I couldn't tell because I couldn't understand a word of their English. But my two "favorites" were the two young men who sang to me. One of them has only been to class once. I was slightly impressed that he showed up for the exam at all. His topic was 'Exercise.' The following is his speech:

There are two things people should do to better themselves: learn and exercise.

That was it. The remainder of the time, he decided to sing me a song in English, hoping this would improve his grade. It didn't.

But my favorite by far was from Juan (this is his "English" name, although he pronounces it Jew-Ann). He actually prepared a speech, but felt he needed to add something to improve it. He said, "Mrs. Bowen, it must be difficult to sit here all day by yourself and listen to our speeches, so I will sing you a song, and maybe it will improve my grade." Then he proceeded to sing "You Are Not Alone" by Michael Jackson. I was going to give him bonus points until I heard this part of the song: "I am here wiss you." Sorry Jew-Ann, no A for you.

Monday, November 2, 2009

I'm a Local

A lot of my 'big moments' in China tend to happen in the supermarket. Yesterday was no different. Michael and I find ourselves going to Wu Mart at least twice a week. (We both like milk, and they only come in 950 ml containers here...). We are used to people stopping to look into our grocery cart to see our selections. For some reason they are really intrigued by our food choices, although I feel they are not that strange - milk, oatmeal, yogurt, vegetables and rice. So I thought nothing of it when an older lady stopped to peak into our cart. But then she started pointing at my oatmeal and speaking in Chinese (which brings me to another point I must tell you about in a minute). Apparently, she was asking me - ME- where she could find something in the supermarket. I have taken this as an indicator of one of two things - either I've been in China too long (as now I'm giving directions to the native Chinese), or I've just been here long enough to be accepted as a local. Either way, it was nice to feel like the one who knew her way around for once.

Now my other observation. It has now gotten to the point that I can carry on a conversation with the people here, and I don't just mean English speakers. I don't even mean that I am speaking in Chinese. My Mandarin is very poor. I only know enough to order food and tell a taxi where to drop me off. I am speaking of instances where a Chinese person is speaking in Chinese while I am speaking in English, and somehow we are able to understand each other. For instance, Michael and I regularly go to the same selection of restaurants. The last time we went to one of our favorites, I went in and got our table while Michael went next door to get a drink. The waitress recognized me and began speaking in Chinese. I responded, "Oh, he's coming. He went next door to get a drink." And then she saw Michael coming in and nodded - maybe not knowing exactly what I said, but getting the general idea. Again, this could be representing one of the two options mentioned above.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

A Recap


In case you couldn't access the blog I had on our website, here's what you missed:



Blisters, Blueberry Lays, etc.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009




We have now been in China for 19 days. We have had too many adventures during these 2 1/2 weeks to record them all here. I will try to hit the high points.


After spending a night in Shanghai, we arrived at our apartment in Hangzhou Friday night. When I woke up Saturday morning, it took me a few minutes to realize where I was. And when I did realize where I was, I kept thinking, “This is crazy. What am I doing here?” Although there are days when I still think that, I have started to feel at home here. That first Saturday, we walked down to the supermarket. At the time, it seemed like it was about 5 miles - about as much as I would walk in maybe 2 weeks in the U.S. I had major blisters and was not really all that excited to be in China. Now that we have been here for a few weeks, that walk to the supermarket seems like nothing. Maybe we are getting in better shape. Maybe it just seems that way because we have to walk everywhere, and we’ve covered longer distances than that. Or maybe we’re just getting used to it. Our apartment is on the 6th floor. There is no elevator. That’s 106 steps - we counted. I used to get winded on the 2nd floor. Now I can make it all the way to the 4th floor before getting winded. In short, we are adjusting to life in China.


Many of our adventures tend to take place in the supermarket. That is where I had my first glimpse at culture shock. We live in a city with about 7 million other people, so the supermarket gets pretty crowded. But somehow, among all the pushing and shoving, I still noticed the live turtles, struggling in plastic bags, trying to escape their doom of becoming dinner. We have thought about starting a ‘Save the Turtles’ operation here, but I fear that even if we set them free, someone would be all to happy to find free dinner passing them by on the streets. We also came across a display of Lays potato chips. I thought, “Oh good, a little taste of home.” But the Lays here are a little different than those back in the good ol’ U.S.of A. Our choices were cucumber, kiwi, or blueberry. We were feeling adventurous, so we decided to give the blueberry flavored Lays a try. When we got back to the apartment and worked up the nerve, we counted to 3 and went for it at the same time. After about 1.2 seconds, we were both reaching for a drink to get the taste out of our mouths. Lesson #1 from China: Blueberries and potato chips don’t mix.




Oh The Adventures of Teaching...

Thursday, October 1, 2009

I have now completed my first full week of classes. And, thankfully, have a week of holiday to recover! I teach 6 classes. On Tuesdays, I teach 2 Business English classes for senior economics majors (one of these is pictured above). On Thursdays and Fridays, I ride a shuttle bus to our other campus (1 hour ride from the campus where we live). I have 2 classes on each of those days - all Oral English for freshman English majors.


My seniors are not the best English students, but we’re getting used to each other. They were my first class, and we have actually met 3 times. Sophomores, Juniors, and Seniors all begin classes one week before the Freshman. Our first class meeting was quite an adventure. Because they are economics majors, they haven’t had as much practice with their English, so I...have...to...talk...very...slowly. During the first class, I introduced myself and told about my family and my hometown (Memphis). Next, we went over the class rules. I told them that if they obeyed the rules, we would be friends and have a good time in class. If they do not obey the rules, they will make me very sad, and I would have to make them very sad. They were terrified of me. I don’t think anyone has ever been terrified of me in my entire life! I’ve got to admit, that was a little thrilling! For the rest of class, I gave them an opportunity to introduce themselves to me. They had to tell me 5 things: 1)Their Chinese name, 2)Their English name, 3)Their hometown, 4)What their hometown is famous for (every town is famous for something around here), and 5)If they could visit anywhere in the world, where would the go and why. While they were working on their answers, I went around the room to help those who didn’t already have one, come up with an English name. I made a list of names they could choose from- you know, good English names like Monica, Rachel, Phoebe and Kate, Juliet, Claire, Sawyer, Charlie, and Jack. Their introductions went over without much hitch. They had no problem telling me what their hometowns were “famurs” for, and if they could visit anywhere in the world, most chose Paris because it is so “romantica.”


But if I’m allowed to have favorites, I would have to say it’s my freshmen classes. They are English majors, so their English is much better. And, who wouldn’t like a class that gasps as soon as you walk into the room and mumbles to one another “how beautiful!” It has a certain affect on the self-esteem. They also tend to be more respectful. I also like these classes because they are only 2 40-minute periods, rather than the 3 40-minute periods for my senior classes. We had the same class format for my Oral English classes. I introduced myself and the class, and then gave them a chance to introduce themselves. It went really well. And after classes were over, half the class would line up to have their picture taken with me!


Now I’m grateful to have a week off. Today is China’s National Day. This year they celebrate 60 years since the founding of the People’s Republic. October 4th is the Mid-Autumn Mood Festival. So to celebrate both holidays, the government has given us October 1-8 as a national holiday. We plan to visit Shanghai for a few days. And then we will travel by bus to Nanjing, to visit some museums and tour the city. I’ll let you know how it goes!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Hello From China

I'm back!! We were having some problems with our website, so Michael and I got a new program for our computer that makes it possible for access parts of the internet that have been blocked here in China - including blogspot. So from now on, I will be using my old trusty blog site here for relaying my experiences of life in China.

For today, I don't want to share any stories. As some of you may know, I have been feeling very homesick over the past few weeks. The experts call this 'culture shock.' I just call it 'missing Annie.' But I do miss more than Annie! Life in China isn't really difficult - we have everything that we need. It's just different. And I definitely couldn't do this alone. Michael is a great source of support and encouragement, but he's not who I'm talking about. My Father is the one who gets me through everyday here - good and bad. Never have I felt his presence more. So today, I just want to share one of my favorite verses, which also happens to go along with one of my favorite songs. When I am feeling lonely or homesick or just plain sad, this verse always lifts my heart.

(The song below was recorded by the ZOE group from Nashville, TN)

Zephaniah 3:17
The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.


Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Goodbye U.S. of A


Michael and I, along with a team of friends, leave for China this afternoon! You can keep up with us at www.7chinafriends.com. It's still under construction, but hopefully we'll have it up and going soon! 

Friday, July 24, 2009

A Loving Farewell to Agape


Sorry it has been a while since my last post. Things have been a little crazy, as I'm sure you can imagine. This weekend we are having our second yard sale in an attempt to sell most of our worldly possessions. The first was held in Henderson and was a great success. This one is in Cordova - I'll let you know how it goes.


Today was my last day of work. It is bittersweet. I am so excited about our upcoming year in China and all the amazing things that we will experience. But it is difficult to leave a job that you enjoy and that has provided stability to launch out into the unknown. It is a great lesson in faith and trust in the Father. I'm getting there.


Tuesday, Michael and I joined my adoption center co-workers at my director's house for a cookout and a movie. It was wonderful - I will miss the friends I have made and the laughs that we have shared. Thursday at our Agape staffing, they served a breakfast in my honor - there's no greater tribute that Panera Bread Bagels and chocolate milk.


So with the close of this day, I bid a loving farewell to my friends at Agape. Thanks for laughing at my jokes. Thanks for all the encouragment that helped me to do my job well. Thanks for the opportunity at my first ENJOYABLE big-girl job! Michael, Melissa, Carolyn, Amber, Jennifer, Claire, and Willie - you will all be missed!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

I Can Officially Make It Public!

Michael and I have some news... no I'm not pregnant! We had to share this information with several people before we could make it public knowledge, but now I can share it with the whole world if I want: We're moving to China!!!!
We have had the opportunity for several years now to move to China and teach in a university there, but for different reasons, we have always said "no." We did the same this year, but our Father had other plans! He kept putting it in front of us, over and over and over. Applications were supposed to be sent in March. We decided at the end of May to see what could be done, since Somebody obviously wanted us to. Chuck Harle, who is the director of the China Calls program, told us that it would be impossible, but if our Father wanted it to happen, it would happen. So we sent in all the necessary paper work and waited. About 2 weeks later we found out that we have been hired by Hangzhou Normal University in Hangzhou, China. And the crazy thing is that we actually got hired before many of those who turned in their applications back in March!
My brother Kyle and his wife Rebecca, along with their team (Stan & Juliane McCorkle and Kevin Westmoreland), were supposed to be in a city about 2 hours north of us. But their jobs there fell through and they have been placed in Hangzhou as well! We are all very excited about going, and especially about being together in the same city to do a Great Work!
I will finish up my job at Agape on July 24th. That will give me one week to pack up before our lease here in Memphis is up! After that, we will spend the next 3 weeks visiting with friends and family. Then we will fly out of Dallas sometime around the 25 of August. We will be teaching at the university for the entire school year - 10 months. We will probably spend several weeks after the school year is up "surveying" different areas of Asia for when we move over there for good. Our sweet Annie will be living with her grandparents in Ft. Worth, Texas for the next year. I cry about this all the time! But it is for the best!
So, we have less than 5 weeks to pack up all of our belongings and figure out where to put everything that we're not taking! Things are a little hectic right now but we are so excited! Please remember us when you talk to our Father!
** Notice the special capitalization! We have to watch what we say, so please do the same with any responses, emails, facebooks, etc! Thanks!
Please enjoy these pictures of our future home!
This is one of the views of the campus! The building in focus is the library!
This is the Art Center at Hangzhou Normal University

Another view of the campus

The beautiful West Lake - major attraction in Hangzhou

Hangzhou cityscape

Saturday, June 13, 2009

I Have a Sister!!

Kyle and Becca were joined in matrimony on June 6, 2009 - my parents' 28 wedding anniversary. When Daddy asked Kyle if they chose this date in honor of his parents, Kyle said, "No, it was just the first Saturday we were free." How sweet. The wedding was held at the Buford church of Christ in Buford, Georgia.  I had the honor of being one of the bridesmaids and Michael had the honor of being one of the officiants. Here are a few pictures from the big event!

These are the men in my life. Kyle was king for the night as evidenced by his Burger King crown. Dad was the the chef for the evening.


Chef Daddy and his assistants out on the grill. The food was delicious!


Putting on the dress! My beautiful new sister-in-law.


Michael and me right before the ceremony. He's mic'ed and ready to go!

  Waiting for the bride.






I made the groom's cake! It was stressful, but turned out to be a success!

The Hoopers

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

The Lessons I've Learned from "Thugs"


When I first told people in Nashville that we were moving to Memphis, they were quick to warn me of the danger & crime, and even added some scary stories to the mix. So Michael and I decided to live in Cordova - close to Memphis housing prices, but "farther away from Memphis crime." Ha. There are so many things I could say about this, but I'll leave it to another blog post. For the record, I have never felt threatened during our time here in Memphis, and I have learned a lot of lessons about stereotyping and judging people prematurely.

I have been humbled during the last two days by the things I have seen and the lessons I have learned from so called "thugs." I have been taught by my culture that young, black men that wear their pants low and wear do-rags in their hair are bad people and most likely members of a gang. I have been taught to be leary and even fearful of them. Well, they have taught me something completely different.

Last night, Michael and I went out on one of our weekly date nights. We went to a nice Thai restaurant, to the discount movie theater, and then headed over to tcby for some ice cream. We didn't arrive at tcby until around 9:45PM. There was a pizza place next door. As we were getting out of the car, a "thug" came out of the pizza place. If I had been listening to my culture, I would have been "watching my back." But before I had time to register this, this young man humbled me. A white, middle-class woman was walking into the pizza place. She was out of the normal range that manners (at least in the south) would require someone to hold the door for her. In fact, this young man was already out the door and out on the sidewalk. When he saw her approaching, he turned and walked back to the door to open it for her.

Lesson #1: Don't judge by appearance and don't stereotype!

I'll just leave it at that... I think you know where I'm going here. On to lesson 2.

Often, especially in during these hard economic times, I will pass a homeless person on the side of the road while on my way to work. I always feel guilty that I "don't have anything to give them." I will usually say a prayer for them and in this way satisfy my conscience. Besides, I have been taught by my culture that if I give them money, they will just use it on drugs and alcohol. They need to go get a job! This morning on my way to work, I was approaching an intersection. I saw the homeless man with his sign standing on the corner. As I said a prayer and began to divert my eyes, something caught my attention. The car in front of me was stopping. The driver was a young black male wearing a do-rag (another "thug"). He rolled down his window, shook the man's hand, and handed him a wad of cash. Not that it should matter, but the homeless man was a white man, probably in his late 30's.

Lesson #2: Love is not words, but action

So many of us call ourselves Christians, but who are we really? We sit in our expensive church buildings with our middle-class neighbors, feeling comfortable in our pews. We don't drink, we don't cuss, we don't lie. But do we love? Do we obey? We pass homeless people on the side of the road and think we are doing what God wants us to do by not giving them money (to spend on their drugs and booze). But we are not told to decide who deserves our love and generosity. God told one man, to sell all that he had and give it to the poor. This "thug" probably didn't have much himself. But he gave what he had to someone in need, without discretion.

"Little children, let us not love in word or talk, but in deed and in truth." 1 John 3:18

Let's start truly obeying what Jesus says (all of it!!!) and glorifying him by loving (=serving) others, without discretion!!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Here's To You, Becca

In less than 2 weeks, my brother, Kyle is getting married. You must understand that since I was very young, Kyle has been my hero. He was the brother that let me come into his room, set up my stuffed animals like forts, and play G.I. Joes with him. He was the brother that let me hang out with him and his friends, even though sometimes I was the annoying little sister. He was the brother that, while living in China, had to give his permission for me to marry Michael. He was the brother that officiated my wedding. He was the brother that I never thought any girl would be good enough for.

But it has happened. Rebecca Harp. The only girl who I would ever approve of for my big brother.

I think that she will be more like a sister than a sister-in-law, really. She already is. She constantly makes me laugh. She inspires me to be a better person. She's just down right cool! So here's to you, Becca, the newest member of our family! I love you and I'm so excited to be your sister!

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Think Positive


We have had a tough couple of weeks at work. We contract with a state-funded program that works with adoptive families. Due to the economy (I know, I'm sick of hearing about it, too), the state took some cuts. Due to the cuts in the state, we took a 15% cut. So for the past two weeks, we have known that one or more of us would have to be laid off... we were just waiting for the official word. Tuesday morning, we were all called in to the conference room, where our director let us know who had been let go - one of our therapists, Christie. Someone in our Jackson office had to be laid off as well. (Please keep Christie and Jason in your prayers). Although it was a relief to know that I would be able to keep my job, it is difficult to see a co-worker have to go through something like that. There are few words that can be said to bring comfort and encouragement. Morale is low and the office is pretty depressing. So I go home and turn on the TV to try to find some relief and take my mind off things... but that doesn't really work. I used to enjoy watching the news... now it is more depressing than ever. I feel like I'm being bombarded by negativity. It is affecting my thoughts and actions, and at times I feel like I'm drowning in bitterness. But in all reality, we still live in the wealthiest country in the world. We, and more to the point, I have so many things to be thankful for. I have seen some people do this on their blog, and I'm going to steal it... in an effort to ward off the bitterness and negativity, I am going to think of ten things that I am thankful for today:

  1. I woke up this morning in good health.
  2. I woke up this morning with my husband laying by my side, which means he made it through another night of work safely.
  3. I woke up in a bed in a home with air conditioning... 3 things that a huge number of people in this world do not have and will never have.
  4. I had a car to drive to work this morning.
  5. God has blessed me with a job through which He provides for Michael and me financially.
  6. I received an encouraging facebook message this morning from a friend who probably debated on whether or not to even say anything - it has helped me to find strength to get through the day.
  7. Even though I forgot to pack my lunch this morning, I still found something to eat at the office, and I have never had to miss a meal because I could not afford food.
  8. Spring is here and it is finally warm outside. I love when it is warm outside.
  9. My husband and my dog make me laugh ever day... they are two of my greatest blessings.
  10. God had forgiven my sins, and no matter how bad things may get, I know that this world is not all there is. I have something awesome to look forward to!

Okay, I wasn't sure that would work, but finding 10 things to be thankful for was pretty easy... and I actually do feel a lot better!! I hope that, even when you are having a bad day, you take time to count the blessings that God has put in your life!

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

The American Dream


Michael and I plan to move to Asia to do mission work in January 2014. It seems like forever, but there is much to be done and we are trying to be patient. Before we even got married, we came to terms with the fact that we may never own a house. It didn't seem so bad a few years ago when we were just getting out of college, and all of our friends were living in apartments and working temporary jobs like us.... it's gotten a little harder to swallow in the past year. Now our friends are getting married, settling down, starting careers, buying houses, and starting their families. And we're still waiting. I was having a really tough time with this, so Michael and I decided to sit down and have a heart to heart. My husband is wise beyond his years. At some point during our conversation, it hit me. Life is not about pursuing the American Dream. While others around me are building their earthly homes, I am at peace knowing that each I step on earth is building my real home - my eternal home. I may not have a lot of nice stuff - we live in an apartment, we drive old cars, our couch was free from a friend of a friend and has a few holes in it - but I have great treasure in Heaven. Now I think about things and believe that people have reason to envy me! I'm not settling on this earth. I have something so much better in store. Maybe that's one reason why Jesus tells us that it is harder for the rich to get to heaven. They have settled on earth. They have stored their treasures here and feel perfectly content with this life and the treasures that they have. But for those of us who are storing our treasures in heaven, we have no reason to hold on to this earth. Sometimes when I'm having a really tough day, I find myself thinking "I can't wait to go home." And then I realize that I am at home. The first time I noticed that I did this, I was a bit disturbed. Now I understand. Even my "home" isn't really my home. My home is in heaven, and I can't wait to get there!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Long Time No See


So, it has seriously been forever. I have decided that it is time to update the blog! There have not been any major events as of late, but there has been a lot going on.

Last month (March 6-7), I got a chance to go to Louisville, KY to visit one of my good friends Tarah. She got engaged a few months ago, and I had not seen her since this exciting development! Nor had I met her fiance. So I trekked over to Nashville and met up with my college girl friends to take a road trip to Louisville. I had such a great time... it has been forever since I got to have a girls' weekend. Daniel (Tarah's fiance) was absolutely wonderful - so she got my official approval over the weekend. We stayed up until about 2AM (I didn't even stay up that late in college), just talking, goofing off and having an all-around good time. Saturday, we got up and went to Daniel's apartment to find that he had fixed us a big breakfast. Then we headed over to downtown Louisville to spend the rest of the day. We got to visit the Louisville Slugger Factory and then played Catch Phrase (a must at all get-togethers) by the river. The weather was perfect and the company was perfect. Here are some pictures.






















Fast forward a few weeks. Last week I went on a retreat with work (I work for the Adoption Support Center - a ministry of Agape). We spent Wednesday through Friday at Fall Creek Falls. I had never been, but was so excited. I enjoy hiking and all things outdoors. We decided to leave on Tuesday so we could stop in Nashville for lunch and take our time getting there. We decided to have lunch at Buca de Bepo in Cool Springs... YUM! It was quite interesting ordering for 15 but we managed and it all went on Agape's tab....so, thanks Agape! After getting our fill of pasta, we decided to hit the road again and move on to middle Tennessee. Our car got to about Mount Juliet when we had to turn around. We got a call from one of the other cars in our caravan. They had been badly rear-ended on the interstate. The back windshield busted and hit someone in the head. Everyone seemed fine but they needed to go to the hospital to get checked out. So, the rest of us tried to entertain ourselves in the emergency room for about 4 hours. We were finally cleared and all reported to be in good shape. We got some pain medication for the soreness that was sure to follow and headed on the the Falls. It was beautiful. We only got to hike one day (it rained the other full day that we were there), but it was great. We hiked to a lookout over the gorge and had a devotional. All-in-all it turned out to be pretty decent considering it was a work trip!


Saturday, February 28, 2009

50 is the New 30



A few weeks ago, my mom turned 50. Daddy was going to be out of the country during this momentous occasion, so we had to find an EXTREME way to celebrate. Dad and I (along with help from friends) came up with the idea of a spa weekend. Now, I wanted to go to one of those really amazing spa resorts in Arizona or California, but we just couldn't shell out $2000 a day. So we decided to stay close and settled for Hot Springs, AR. I know what you're thinking - "Arkansas?" Well, history will tell you that Hot Springs was the location for the first natural spring "spas." Daddy booked us a room at the Arlington Resort that included a bath and spa package. Don't worry, I'll get to the bath part. 

So on Saturday morning, I drive to Little Rock and pick Mom up from the airport. She thought that we were just going back to Memphis to hang out for the weekend. Please, Mom. Is that anyway to celebrate a half-century of life? So she thought I didn't know where I was going. She kept saying, "Kris, Memphis is the other direction." "Mom, I know where I'm going."  We got to Benton, and I spilled the beans over lunch. We were both pretty excited. Besides the occasional iffy massage in Asia, neither of us had been through a real, luxurious spa experience. 

About an hour or so later, we pulled into Hot Springs. We were both laughing so hard, I almost peed my pants. In our heads we had pictured a beautiful, tourist city. Somewhere along the way, we had forgotten that we were in Arkansas. On our way to our resort, we passed the Palm Reader, the Wax Museum, and a brothel or two. But once we saw our resort, we felt a little better. It looked relatively nice. 

We were a little uncertain starting out, but it turned out to be a great weekend. And we almost forgot how ghetto the rest of Hot Springs was, since we left our hotel maybe once. The first night was our "bath." This is how they did spas in the old days (I'm talking late 1800s when this resort was built). They pump natural spring water from the Hot Springs into this "bath house." When we first walked in, I felt like I was in a scene from A Farewell to Arms. (And Mom said she felt like she was in an Indian hospital in the 80s) There were little gurney-like beds lined up, and women wrapped in what appeared to be gauze from head to toe. On closer look, it wasn't actually gauze, it was towels and sheets. The ladies that worked there sent us into the dressing rooms to get undressed and wrapped in our sheet. Then they directed us into a stall with a bath from 1902. Then my attendant told me to drop my sheet.... WHAT? Let me have your sheet, and step into the tub. Um...ok. I'm naked in front of a complete stranger. So it's a little awkward, but I get into the tub and try to relax, she starts the jets (I mean boat motor stuck into the tub) and I lay back and enjoy my private little hot tub. After about 10 or 15 minutes, she's back. "Are you ready for your scrub?"  ???? She proceeds to get a loofah, douse it with soap and start scrubbing me down. In the tub. Naked. AWKWARD. When I finally got out and had my sheet back on, I felt much better about the experience. Then I got to be wrapped in hot towels (gauze) and lay on a bed (gurney). After about 10 or 15 minutes of relaxing in my gauze, I got to go in for a short massage. All in all, it turned out to be pretty wonderful, and when it was over, Mom and I went straight back to our room and went to bed. 

The next day, we decided to also go into the beauty salon and get the full package spa treatment. This lasted about 4 hours. I'll spare you all the details, but basically we got smothered in 3,000 year old mud and then wrapped in plastic. It was pretty amazing. 

I had an wonderful time hanging out with my mom and we got to be treated like rich queens. 

Moral of the story: If you go to Hot Springs, try not to leave your hotel.

Monday, February 16, 2009

The Obligatory 25

I have not had time to make a real post in several days, so maybe this will tide you over until the weekend.

1. I grew up in Bombay (Mumbai), India and spoke 2 languages other than English - Hindi and
Gujarati. Now I don't even speak English all that well.

2. My greatest ambition in life is to be a mom.

3. I LOVE big dogs. Michael and I have a 7 month old harlequin great dane named Annie. One
day soon, she will be taller than me and weigh more than me. She is on track to get up to 130
lbs - small for her breed.

4. I am on a mission team with Michael and two other couples. The 5 of them are some of the
funniest, most genuine, most wonderful people that I know and are quickly becoming my
family

5. I am a daddy's girl, but my mom is my hero and my best friend.

6. I'm a hopeless romantic. I believed in fairy tales until I got my heart broken in college.
When Michael and I started dating, I became a believer again.

7. I love to read - almost to a fault. It is my escape (and evidently I like to escape a lot). Jane
Austen is my favorite (see #6)

8. Going along w/ #7, I have always dreamed of having my own "library" - think the beast's
library in Beauty and the Beast.

9. If I'm in the U.S. too long, I start going stir-crazy. I prefer to leave the States at least once
a year. Someday, I hope to leave indefinitely

10. I was abducted once during my junior year of college. I was hog-tied with zip cords, had my
face smeared with toothpaste, was forced to eat honey buns, pooted on, smacked in the butt
(not gonna mention names!!), hosed down, thrown in the back of a truck, and left for dead
behind a huge air-conditioning unit. I think all this was filmed, but I've never seen it... I miss
those guys!

11. One of my life's goals is to see the 7 wonders of the medieval world and the 7 new wonders.
I have already been to 2 (the Taj Mahal and the Colosseum), but only count the Taj because
I was too young to remember the Colosseum.

12. I am bi-cultural - I identify with two cultures.

13. Mother Teresa is my hero (along w/ my mom)

14. I love Texas Longhorns football! It used to be an obsession (I knew the depth chart thru the
3rd and 4th string) but now I have it under control... sort of.

15. I harmonize with the radio. And I used to stand on top of my dresser and sing Celine Dion in
front of the mirror (I would also take breaks to say, "Ladies and Gentlemen, the Makin
Music Showband!")

16. I was born in the middle of a "blizzard." Probably the only one Lubbock, TX has ever had.

17. My first passport (I think I've had 4) picture was taken when I was 1 day old

18. I grew up in a city of 16 million people. It was loud 24 hours a day. Now I can't sleep if it's
too quiet. I owe Ashley HUGE for the fan she got me as a wedding present that I fall asleep
to every night.

19. My first life's goal (that I made when I was like 5) was accomplished a few years ago when I
met Ozzie Smith and got an autographed baseball.

20. I'm an introvert. That's why I only answer my phone if it's my mom, dad or Michael.

21. I was once sued for $50,000. Luckily (some sarcasm intended), it settled for $15,000.

22. I am an amazing driver. (Although, Jill can attest to the fact that this has not ALWAYS been
the case!) I have never gotten a ticket. I've only been pulled over once, and didn't get a
ticket because, when the officer asked for my registration, I asked him what it looked like.

23. I once worked at a library. I was a librarian's assistant. Everyone thought I was a nerd, but
it continues to be the greatest job I've ever had.

24. I love my brother, but I always wanted a sister. Now I have 2! One is the best sister-in-law
(to-be) ever! The other is my cousin who now lives with my parents whom I consider to
be my sister.

25. The Lord is my light and my salvation... The Lord is the stronghold of my life. (Psalm 27:1)
The Lord my God is in my midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over me with
gladness, he will quiet me by his love; he will exult over me with loud singing (Zeph. 3:17)

Friday, February 6, 2009

Tomato Jello


Yes... I succumbed. There was too much pressure - I was basically forced to start a blog. But I must say I am kindof having fun with this :)

So, today I went to a lunch that our work board provided for all of us at the office. It was a cute, kind of girly place. The kind of place with fancy food in small portions that makes me feel a lot more womanly and mature than I actually am. As I was perusing the menu, I noticed a term I was unfamiliar with. Did you know there is such a thing as tomato jello? It's true... I would not lie to you. They try to hide its true identity behind a fancy name: Tomato Aspic. But, "that which we call a rose...," ya know? Let's call it what it really is, people! It's TOMATO JELLO. And yes, I believe it IS as disgusting as it sounds. And I thought Avocado Milkshakes were the weirdest thing I'd ever tried!